
We hear a lot these days about what's right and wrong at a birthday party.
Traditional etiquette requires that invitations be handwritten and sent out in time for
the guest to reply (RSVP). The guests should always arrive punctually as a
courtesy to the host. One must never bring along anyone who has not been invited.
Remember, the host has planned for a definite number of people, and it would not
be fair to impose on his hospitality. It is also important to dress appropriately
________ blue jeans are for informal occasions only.
Good etiquette dictates that all guests bring a gift to the party. The present should
be appropriate to the age and interests of the guest of honor. Books and records
make excellent gifts for adolescents and adults, and toys are always suitable for
children. One should not take a chance on giving food, pets, or alcohol.
No party is complete without a cake, candles, and ice cream _____ not to mention
a chorus of "Happy Birthday". The guest of honor ought to make a wish before
blowing out the candles. The wish must be kept a secret or it won't come true.
A birthday party is the only occasion when the gifts should be opened in the
presence of the guests. A thank-you note must be sent promptly.
COMPREHENSION QUESTIONS
INSTRUCTIONS. Discuss the following questions.
1. What kind of person wrote the article?
2. Where would you find an article like this?
3. What does R.S.V.P. mean?
4. If you can't arrive on time, what should you do?
5. If someone is visiting you who isn't invited to the party, what should you do?
6. How would you react if a guest arrived at your formal party in blue jeans?
7. What would you do if you unknowingly went to a formal party in blue jeans?
8. What would you do if you were given an animal as a gift?
9. Why do you keep your wishes secret?
10. What are some other birthday traditions?
11. Who sends the "thank-you" note?
12.If you forgot to bring a gift to a party, what would you say?